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How Performative Friends Enable Racists
Recently a friend of mine brought up an unfortunate recurring event in her personal life. She noticed that a certain subset of her...

Buddy Mathis
Feb 18, 20206 min read


I Cannot Stress How Much Y'all REALLY Hate Black Women
Last year I wrote a piece called, “Y’all Really Hate Black Women, Don’t You?” At the time it related to Halle Bailey being cast in the live-action Little Mermaid movie and then spread out into other times where Black women had a chance to shine and (mostly) racists got mad about it. This time around, I got pulled into this position due to the infamous death of Kobe Bryant and the journalistic integrity of Gayle King. I honestly wasn’t going to jump too far into the conversati

Buddy Mathis
Feb 11, 20207 min read


J Dilla: Silent Life Soundtrack Composer
The week starting February 5th, 2006 was as normal as any other week for me. I was looking forward to my birthday on the 14th and my tax...

Buddy Mathis
Feb 6, 20206 min read


The L Word Made Me A Better Person
Close to a year ago I saw an announcement that The L Word would be returning as The L Word: Generation Q. One of my favorite shows was...

Buddy Mathis
Feb 4, 20207 min read


The Oppression Olympics: Death
(The Oppression Olympics is my look into people wanting to compete over who has it worse in a zero-sum game.) I’m making this one really...

Buddy Mathis
Jan 28, 20203 min read


Ulcerative Colitis, Part 5: Final Thoughts
I had been planning to write about my experiences with ulcerative colitis for about a year. Last year was the 5th anniversary of my...

Buddy Mathis
Jan 17, 20204 min read


Ulcerative Colitis, Part 4: The Surgery
The last week of 2013 was the worst time leading up to the best. I just had to get there first. By this time, I had worked a little over...

Buddy Mathis
Jan 16, 20206 min read


Ulcerative Colitis, Part 3: The Interview
If you’ve been keeping up this far, you can tell that this was a big deal for me being diagnosed with this disease and obviously it was...

Buddy Mathis
Jan 15, 20208 min read


Ulcerative Colitis, Part 2: The Videos
For transparency's sake, there was a long blog I wrote to go along with this but while stumbling over files on my computer, I came across...

Buddy Mathis
Jan 14, 20201 min read


Ulcerative Colitis, Part 1: The Beginning
January 13, 2014: Post-surgery, I woke up in my hospital room not feeling too different but knowing something was different. I was tired...

Buddy Mathis
Jan 13, 20206 min read


Y'all Are Doing Suicide Prevention Wrong
Okay, that may or may not have been a sensational headline but there’s a reason for it. I feel like suicide prevention is something...

Buddy Mathis
Jan 7, 20204 min read


Kwanzaa Day 7 - Imani: Faith
I’ve meant to do this in the past but never felt I had the right outlet or platform for it. Now that I’ve finally got my own site it’s...

Buddy Mathis
Jan 1, 20201 min read


Kwanzaa Day 6 - Kuumba: Creativity
Kuumba: Creativity - To do always as much as we can, in the way we can, in order to leave our community more beautiful and beneficial...

Buddy Mathis
Dec 31, 20193 min read


Kwanzaa Day 5 - Nia: Purpose
I’ve meant to do this in the past but never felt I had the right outlet or platform for it. Now that I’ve finally got my own site it’s...

Buddy Mathis
Dec 30, 20194 min read


Kwanzaa Day 4 - Ujamaa: Cooperative Economics
I’ve meant to do this in the past but never felt I had the right outlet or platform for it. Now that I’ve finally got my own site it’s...

Buddy Mathis
Dec 29, 20193 min read


Kwanzaa Day 3 - Ujima: Collective Work and Responsibility
I’ve meant to do this in the past but never felt I had the right outlet or platform for it. Now that I’ve finally got my own site it’s...

Buddy Mathis
Dec 28, 20196 min read


Kwanzaa Day 2 - Kujichagulia: Self-Determination
I’ve meant to do this in the past but never felt I had the right outlet or platform for it. Now that I’ve finally got my own site it’s...

Buddy Mathis
Dec 27, 20195 min read


Kwanzaa day 1 - Umoja: Unity
I’ve meant to do this in the past but never felt I had the right outlet or platform for it. Now that I’ve finally got my own site it’s...

Buddy Mathis
Dec 26, 20195 min read


Blackfamous proved we were right about BET and other Black owned spaces.
On December 13th, 2019, Michael Harriot of theroot.com sent out a tweet stating: Then Black Twitter, as usual, did its thing and weighed...

Buddy Mathis
Dec 17, 20195 min read


A World Not Our Own
Apparently, I’m not supposed to be who I am. As a Black male in America, people have preconceived notions about my character before they...

Buddy Mathis
Nov 6, 20195 min read
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